| Location | Wallsend |
| Age | 66 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 15/01/1938 |
| Date of Death | 05/09/2004 |
| Visitors | 660 since 22/11/2008 |
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Mum you were diagnosed with mesothelioma which is an asbestos cancer and it shocked us all and we
didn't know where you could have gettin it from but the biggest shock we got was that there was no
cure and you would be gone within months I took you to lots of hospital appointments and watched
while doctors prodded and poked you and gave you painful radio therapy and needles to take fluid off
your lungs all which we knew wouldn't do any good but you never complained once.That was right up
until the time they said there was nothing else they could do for you it was still a while before
you took to your bed. But when that time came we nursed you with the help from Macmillin but you
wouldn't let me leave your side. it was a horrible and painful death and we had to watch you suffer
but we gave you your dying wish that we would nurse you at home and let you die at home with your
four children by your side you opened your eyes for a brief second after being unconsious all day
and looked at me and i knew your time was near i held your lovely face in my hands as you closed
your eyes for the last time it breaks my heart to remember seeing you leave the house the way you
did that morning. You can R.I.P now Mam I did fight your case and won you said i would do it after
you'd gone but it doesn't make me feel any better i'm still very bitter and angry you still
shouldn't have died with mesothelioma. We all miss you so much rest in peace love always Mam xxxxx
You always had a smile and a laugh to share with us even in the darkest of days, you knew how much we all loved you and promised you we would stick together and of course look after uncle micky even tho he doesn't need it! We have all kept our promise and i know that's how you can move through your journey easier as no matter what were always here for each other just like you were for all of us, your door was always open and still is for us all. Forever missed but never forgotten and loved by us all xxx
To My Wonderful Mother xx
I will never forget you my darling mother,
for I loved you more than any other other.
You fed me clothed me dried my tears
Looked after me for many years.
The time then came when I looked after you
as you grew weaker and I instantly knew,
that your time with me was getting shorter
and I heard your words "Goodbye my daughter."
For all the years you took care of me,
I will always remember and treasure
For my dear mother now you are gone
Your memory is with me forever.
copyright© Jean Cavanagh 2009
Your shadow walks beside me forever by my side, always there to guide me ever since you died and now its your anniversary i ask the lord above to tell you how much i miss you and give you all my love.
anniversary
Thinking of you Mam and although we will light candles on the 5th September for you we your family that sat with you the night you died know that you passed away on the 4th September at 10.35pm but i sat with you until a doctor came at 5.30am on the 5th September to pronounce you dead and thats what is on your death certificate we still miss you so much Mam we send you all our love from Joseph, Susan, Catherine, Michael xxxx grandchildren Margaret, Steven, Laura xxxx Great Grandchildren Lisa, Ellie xxx
... "They say that hearts don't really break, dear lord that isn't true, for the day u took my mum away u broke my heart in two" x
sorry i haven't been on to light candles lately i can't think straight i have a lot on my mind but i do think about you always and miss you lots xxxx
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A special delivery of hugs and kisses just for you Margaret xxx
Snowdrops
The snowdrops are coming out that were planted in memory of all who died of Mesothelioma I will go and take a picture of the garden where your name was read out and put the picture on here i hope its a pretty picture.
your song has just started to play so i will listen to the words and think of you and how you used to sing it when it came on the radio. I miss you so much Mam xxx
Good morning Mum thinking of you there's lots in the news paper at the moment about mesothelioma and others fighting for the right to claim compensation it brings all those awful memories back how we had to fight to prove where you caught this dreadful illness my heart goes out to all these families that are just starting on this journey its long and painful and one i will never forget I don't think these people in parliment realise the emotional strain thats left after caring for a relative with mesothelioma you don't have a choice its a death sentance then you have to have the strength to go on and fight for years to get compensation. I miss you everyday MUM xxxxx
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