Margaret Lillian Davy

1938 - 2004
LocationWallsend
Age66 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth15/01/1938
Date of Death05/09/2004
Visitors1,406 since 22/11/2008
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Mum you were diagnosed with mesothelioma which is an asbestos cancer and it shocked us all and we didn't know where you could have gettin it from but the biggest shock we got was that there was no cure and you would be gone within months I took you to lots of hospital appointments and watched while doctors prodded and poked you and gave you painful radio therapy and needles to take fluid off your lungs all which we knew wouldn't do any good but you never complained once.That was right up until the time they said there was nothing else they could do for you it was still a while before you took to your bed. But when that time came we nursed you with the help from Macmillin but you wouldn't let me leave your side. it was a horrible and painful death and we had to watch you suffer but we gave you your dying wish that we would nurse you at home and let you die at home with your four children by your side you opened your eyes for a brief second after being unconsious all day and looked at me and i knew your time was near i held your lovely face in my hands as you closed your eyes for the last time it breaks my heart to remember seeing you leave the house the way you did that morning. You can R.I.P now Mam I did fight your case and won you said i would do it after you'd gone but it doesn't make me feel any better i'm still very bitter and angry you still shouldn't have died with mesothelioma. We all miss you so much rest in peace love always Mam xxxxx

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I miss you Mum i always will today is a day i will never forget as long as i live. i have put a lovely stand of flowers in church for you and every flower was placed with a memory of you we all miss you so much. Ellie is now 4 and growing up fast she would have loved being at your house playing the games you used to play with stevie & laura I will never understand why you had mesothelioma and it still breaks my heart to think about how you suffered but your at peace now in God's lovely house i miss you with all my heart love sue xxx

Susan Gordon (Daughter)

September 5, 2011

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year i miss you so much especially this time of year look down on us all and know that we are thinking of you as we celebrate another Christmas xx

Susan Gordon (Daughter)

December 31, 2010

Today may seem hard but instead of looking at the sadness of the day we need to remember the happy times we all shared together and that even though you may not be here to enjoy the sunshine we all know your never far away and always by oursides, we miss and love you but it's also times like these we remember how much family means to us all and how know matter what we are all faced with we will always be there for each other. love u as always xxxxx

Margaret Louisedavy (Granddaughter)

September 4, 2010

In memory of my Mum

Theres a love in life thats precious and rare,
it's a love a mother and daughter share,
we shared that love from the day I was born
to the day you died. I love you Mam and I always will
for part of you is with me still we'll meet again
I know thats true you'll call my name, and I'll come to you,
if you could have spoken before you died these are the words
you would have replied, weep not for me, but courage take look
after yourself for my sake.


Susan Gordon

Susan Gordon (Daughter)

September 4, 2010

Thinking of you Mam and needing to feel you close by at the moment please look down on Joe as he comes through his operation help him to fight his way back to us and out of intensive care we need him please let my prayers be answered love you and miss you always xxx

Susan Gordon (Daughter)

May 31, 2010

Just having a hard day could have done with your smile, hug and of cousre that cuppa! Missing you lots as always but don't worry about me i'm strong and a fighter just like you and i know the family will be there but it's not the same! Make sure you look over everyone as i know some who won't admit it but could do with you popping round to give a little sign. Love and missed loads by us all. xxxxxxxxxxx

Margaret Louisedavy (Granddaughter)

April 30, 2010

In memory of those who died of mesothelioma

We planted our snowdrops to remind us of them

Then our snowdrops bloomed and we thought of them

So strong and steadfast, just like them

But our snowdrops will bloom year after year

To remind us our loved ones will always be near

To help us to be strong and true

To be near us and guide us in all we do

Our hearts were broken when they were called away

All we wanted was for them to stay

But we know that one day, we will be together

And our love for them will go on and on forever

Susan Gordon (Daughter)

April 29, 2010

mothers day

thinking of you on mothering sunday steven is taking me away mum for mother's day just the two of us but you will also be in my thoughts and prayers as you always are give grandma a special hug from me as well on mother's day and tell her i miss her with all my heart rest in peace in god's lovely garden xxxx

Susan Gordon (Daughter)

March 13, 2010

just listened to your song mam which i don't often do i leave it on pause because i can't stand to listen to spirit in the sky it reminds me of your funeral but i do feel your close when i play it there's lots going on in my life at the moment and i wish you were here to talk to but we have to cope and life goes on.

Susan Gordon (Daughter)

March 10, 2010

Friendship angel poem :

When I have no one to turn to
And I am feeling kind of low,
When there is no one to talk to
And nowhere I want to go,
I search deep within myself
It is the love inside my heart
That lets me know my Angels are there
Even though we are miles apart.

A smile then appears upon my face
And the sun begins to shine.
I hear a voice, so soft and sweet
Saying, 'Everything will be just fine'
It may seem that I am alone
But I am never by myself at all.
Whenever I need my Angels near
All I have to do is call.

An Angel's love is always true
On that you can depend.
They will always stand behind you
And will always be your friend.
Through darkest hours and brightest days
Our Angel's see us through
They smile when we are happy, and will cry when we are blue..

Thanks for being my Angel my friend
I will be there for you until the end.

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Susan Gordon (Daughter)

March 3, 2010
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